Sincerely, Me

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Do you ever find yourself frustrated when trying to communicate with the opposite sex? At times it can seem as if we speak two different languages or as if we aren't even the same species. How are we supposed to be together if we can't even talk to and understand one another? Apparently, we are expected to at some point figure it all out, but how can we when from the time we are kids we learn to communicate differently?  Women are more focused on connections and for men all talk and little action just doesn't make sense. This ultimately leads to a lot of frustration, arguments, insecurities, and unhappiness. Has this happened to you? Is that how you landed here on this site? Or perhaps you've read books and articles explaining how the genders brains are wired differently, offering tips on how to apply the information. But if you're like me, this can still leave you unsatisfied because what if we don't want to learn to communicate differently? Or wh...

You Hit Like A Girl   ~ The Dilemma of The Urban Black Female                 I’ll never forget a situation in Spike Lee’s movie “Malcolm X”, which turned out to be the most memorable analysis in the entire movie for me.   Malcolm X, played by Denzel Washington, was dating an educated, sweet and shy Black girl named Laura.   Although she gave him the okay to seduce her, he declined because he felt that she was too good for him and he didn’t want to tarnish her.   Good guy, right? Not quite. Instead he dumps (or saves) her and gets with an experienced and lustful White woman named Sophia.   To make a long story short, Laura ends up becoming a prostitute. Why, you ask?   Because she wanted to be desired as Malcolm X had desired Sophia.   It didn’t matter that he didn’t want to ruin her. What ultimately mattered was that he wanted the other more sexual woman. And thus ...